Group Theraplay

A Theraplay Group is an adult-directed, structured play group in which all the participants, adults included, are actively involved together in pleasant, enjoyable activities. Through the use of cooperative and often nurturing games, a Theraplay Group fosters a child's self-esteem, the sense of belonging, the ability to care for oneself and others and the opportunity to develop increased trust. The four rules of a Theraplay Group -- NO HURTS, STICK TOGETHER, HAVE FUN, and THE ADULT IS IN CHARGE -- provide the framework for group experiences that are structuring, challenging, engaging, nurturing and playful. Within this atmosphere of fun, caring, acceptance, and encouragement, children are able to grow socially, emotionally, and often intellectually as well.

Theraplay Groups are for children who have unmet emotional needs: children who are withdrawn or quiet, overactive-aggressive or bossy, frightened or shy, compulsive or rigid. Children with learning problems, speech-language problems, intellectual deficits, and/or academic problems may also have associated emotional problems. Coming from broken homes or with working parents, and under growing pressure to achieve and perform, modern-day children can benefit from the experience of being appreciated not for what they accomplish, but just because they ARE.

Theraplay is a DOING rather than a talking experience. It is important to attend to not only what the children SAY, but to what they DO. When the needs of children for structure, engagement, nurture and challenge are attended to, the children begin to internalize this experience and extend it toward others spontaneously. Rather than using external controls, a Theraplay Group promotes internal self-control and the desire to relate appropriately instead of being suppressed, problems are allowed to surface so that the leader and group members can help children take in the positive experiences offered. Because a Theraplay Group is playful and upbeat, it appeals to children. It also can be a way to "teach" social and communication skills to older children. Finally, it is an excellent way to bring fun and exuberance into the lives of all children.

Group Theraplay has been used in schools, pre-schools, residential settings, and family therapy. Training and certification in Group Theraplay is available through The Theraplay Institute.